Well, I wouldn't be surprised if a thread somewhat like this already existed, but here goes.
I'm currently in college and living off campus. I have a few decent groups of friends, and I'm alright socially, but I have no experience with dating or women. Recently, however, I've been getting rather lonely and I want to find a relationship. I'm 20 now, so it's probably long overdue.
I'm in a few campus groups already, but they are almost entirely male (with the few girls being girlfriends of other group members). I'm thinking that joining other groups may help me find girls with similar interests, though. Has anyone here had any success with this approach? What groups would you recommend that have significant female populations (but aren't stereotypically feminine interests)? Any other ideas on how to meet girls in college?
Get into a cooking club.
Or, get into a weightlifting club. Because girls will go there to get a "perfect ass"
If you're the religious type, then going to church/temple/whatever is a good idea,...
>>3
Wrong place wrong reasons.
Absolutely not,... Right place (plenty of women), and for the right reasons (you are likely to meet someone with compatible world views).
I'm not saying that the point of a church is to flirt, but it's undeniable that it's a great place to meet people you have good chances of getting along with. The drag is that if you usually don't go to church on your own, you probably don't fit with what people who regularly go to church are looking for.
go study abroad in some non-english speaking country
if you play your cards right it's a win-win situation
Not a bad idea, but it's a bit of an overkill,...
I'm not the slightest bit religious, so that doesn't really help. I'm more critical of organized religion than anything else, actually.
Just get out and meet people. College is about meeting new people and trying new experience. Once you get out in the real world you will learn that the level of social interaction on campus is severally different. So take advantage of what you got and just have fun.
As for places with a lot of girls try: ballroom dance club (or any dance club) and you don't have to be a good dancer, in fact you can the cute ones to give you individual tutoring. service clubs, multicultural clubs.
>>8 Casual organizations in the vein of Psychology Club, in which a major declared in said subject is not required. They invariably attract many females, and not all are from that specific "group mindset". They have a few activities each year which you can volunteer to work at, and thus meet girls on a casual level.
>>9 is correct about meeting new people. Join or sit in on as many new clubs as possible. Take a foreign language class too! The chick:man ratio in foreign language classes are phenomenal. I was in a french class that had about 12 women and me and my friend were the only two males in it. it was heaven <3
> The chick:man ratio in foreign language classes are phenomenal
Except for Japanese I guess. The most girls I've ever seen in ours is 1, most guys was 5.
If it's French though I would completely expect it to be full of women who blindly think it's the language of romance.
bingo! thats where you go in for the kill man!!
as for Japanese it figures, basically all the otake would be there and the male otaku far outnumber the female otaku, at least in my personal experience.
but man trust me, u will get a lot of opportunity to talk to women in french class. it was heaven for me<3
i totally misspelled the first "otaku" ;-;