OP here. yeah i agree 5's being paranoid.
i guess you're right...she simply enjoys some time alone. and what she keeps saying that it's the quality of the time spent that matters and not the quantity. oh well. i can live with that for now...
sometimes i just get insecure and start thinking alot when she seems reluctant to meet up more often or doesn't seem to feel the 'pain' when we don't get to meet up.