I want to get back with my ex (9)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-22 04:23 ID:N79ZWVBI

I love her and I know she loves me but how do I convert that into a relationship? We broke up because this was both of our first relationships and we got a little scared of hurting each other.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-22 05:38 ID:WM37S9jr

Tell her that exactly.
Say "I'm scared of hurting you, but regardless... I really love you."
You have to talk to her. No matter what we say, you have to tell her or else nothing will be helped.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-22 14:35 ID:Heaven

>>1
I read "we got a little scared" and immediately thought "bel-air".
What the fuck.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-22 15:20 ID:N79ZWVBI

>>2
You're right, but what if she says no?

>>3
LOL

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-22 19:28 ID:Heaven

>>4
What if she says no?
Then she says no.
That's it.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-22 22:40 ID:N79ZWVBI

>>5
Unfortunately I have feelings, if she says no she might as well shit all over them. Is there any surefire way to get her to say yes, or even consider it?

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-22 23:12 ID:N79ZWVBI

Just checked my emails:

"U know I still love u, and I would luv it, but I just can't handle it right now. I have sooo much going on that I'm just exhausted. You deserve someone who can be fully and completly committed to you. That's what I want for you"

I know she's trying to remain impersonal because she's stopped using full words. Sucks. I'm not as crushed as I thought I would be, just deflated.

This thread is now about how I can meet someone new.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 04:51 ID:Heaven

>>7 ICQ

Bring hamburgers.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 16:00 ID:N79ZWVBI

>>8
wat

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