>>2 Speaks the truth! It's when you aren't looking that you find that you come to care about someone you randomly meet! Your self-esteem shouldn't be based on whether you're with someone, that's something it took me a long hard time to realize!

If you can't be confident & have self-esteem in yourself, and where you're at in life (even if you privately are disappointed with it), trying to find someone else isn't going to help you change that! Your worth is based off yourself, not the fact you're with or not with someone!

Once you realize that, and just relax, be confident & comfortable in life, you'll eventually come across someone, and find that mutual attraction comes from people who are confident enough to stand alone, but are interested in getting to know one another better, rather than someone depending on another person for happiness!