My love and my sis (14)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 15:10 ID:OkUYK83F

Some time back, about half a year, my sis started at a new school.
She lived there during the schooldays, and came here at the weekends.
One day, she called me.
She and her friend, let's just call her Lisa, were bored and tought about having some fun with me.
It didn't really take that long time before this call was almost only between me and Lisa.
I tought she was funny.
Some time went, about half a month, and then my sis once brought a friend over for the weekend.
This was Lisa.
She and I came along well pretty much at once.
It wasn't really anything between us, more like friends.
I started having contact with her via phonecalls, MSN, even WoW sometimes (I actually started playing again just for her sake).
Slowly, I started to fall a little in love with her.
As time went, my sis started to react badly with how I had contact with her friend.
She started to make sure that we didn't have contact.
For instance, she made sure her friend could only come over in weekends she knew I was going to be away on.
Both Lisa and I made it somewhat clear to my sis that she couldn't do that any longer.
But she didn't listen, so we just met behind her back.
Nothing love-related really happened.
She didn't have any problems with either of us, as long as we weren't in the same place.
But that somehow changed.
Lately, shes been really cold against me, often reacting agressively over the smallest thing.
I tought that it just was one of those times again, as she often would be putting up a fight if she didn't get her will, but this time it's been keeping up for quite a while.
And just now, about fifteen minutes ago, I got a call from Lisa.
She was almost in tears.
My sis had said several nasty things to her, how she "could just be with me already", that "she could get out of her life", etc.
And she was devastated, because my sis was a really good friend to her too.
If Lisa was just any woman, I'd butt out and let it cool down... but I like her.
What should I just do to stop my sis from doing this, and not ruining Lisa?
I don't want to do something to end their friendship either, as she would be devastated by that.

Help!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 15:42 ID:OkUYK83F

Oh dear... I just made my sis angry on someone else too, perhaps the only one to fix something in this mess.
What a bloody idiot I am.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 16:50 ID:+fZ/AJva

Your sister is being a douchebag. I'd ask why she's being such (IN a nice and calm manner), and then inform her that she's not gaining anything by being a douchebag (Again, don't use this wording).

Then tell Lisa that if your sister is going to be a douchebag that your sister isn't worth having as a friend, at least not until she grows up.

Placating your sister will just be more trouble for everyone.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 20:38 ID:Heaven

Your sister is a closet lesbian who is in love with lisa, solution:

Make her step out of the closet and you set it clear that you wont still her GF.

5 Name: da PG king : 2008-03-04 21:32 ID:jMalijMi

>>4 or suggest taking turns...

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 21:35 ID:Smc01Xv3

fuck em both dawg

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-04 23:05 ID:Heaven

>>4
unless his sister is a closet incest freak and wants OP's cock.

8 Name: Dthncrnge : 2008-03-05 00:39 ID:Heaven

>>5

I cant believe that something that crude could even come to someones head, are you mental? Or do you just have the urge to say whatever comes to mind?

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-05 01:37 ID:Heaven

>>8
He's a troll, just ignore him. He trolls every thread here, you get used to his pitiful self after a while.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-05 07:59 ID:bQFSSQ7h

Maybe your sister has a brother complex, talk with her about it.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-05 08:22 ID:FdkwUZ/P

>>1 I understand well your problem, since my wife was initially my sister's friend. When our initial flirt turned into dating, my sister was quite irritated although is was my gf who took the burnt of her aggressiveness. But in the end she got used to the idea, and they are now good friends,...

There are several reasons for her to be pissed off: She could be afraid of loosing a friend to you, or resent the loss of control in her relation if you dated her friend (if the friend becomes your gf, she can't chose anymore to stop meeting her. She might like her friend as a friend, but not wish to see her becoming family). She might also dislike that you mi too much in her world in general, specially if this happens to more of her friends. She might also have a brother complex, but in that case I doubt she would be aggressive to you.

In any case, I think the best is to eather it down until she gets used to the idea.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-05 08:31 ID:FdkwUZ/P

Probably she doesn't like the prospct of competing with her brother for her friend's attention,...

13 Name: Da PG king : 2008-03-05 21:38 ID:jMalijMi

>>8 Nigga fuck you...

whats Dthncrnge even stand for? Fucking nerds and your damn acronymns

Dumbass
thirty year old virgin
Heipher
(g)Nat
Cringeful
Retarded
Numbfully ugly
Gay
Elephant-fat

You just got PW3ned Nikka!

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-05 22:18 ID:Heaven

>>13

daaayumn gimme sum prizzops on dat dawg

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