>>13, thanks for the encouragement. You're right, I'm trying to be very careful about this: I don't want to force my feelings on him since he so clearly stated that he wasn't interested, but at the same time I don't want to regret not trying to see if he might be interested after all.
The third board member of our club is a good friend of both of us. She's a lovely girl and would probably help me out if I asked her to, but I don't want things to end up awkward every time the three of us are together. (Just imagine it: I like him, he doesn't know, she knows and is trying to help, what a mess!)
As you can tell, I lack courage =(