you got all the way through college, and still 0 xp with females? One of the best opportunities has passed by. An official n00b@life, you have now resorted to asking for help from a place with a high population of socialy incompetent nerds.
Understanding that your first relationship will probably be a dismal failure is a good start. You must gather a significantly more experience before hoping for sucess in a real relationship.
Begin by gaining as much xp as possible. It doesn't matter where or how you get this experience, really. Flirting with women randomly encountered in your day to day life or internet, pathetic dating sites, bars, anywhere. It all counts for something, and as you gain experience, new opportunities inevitably open up, to some extent.
Most couples don't meet in any special place they've gone to in search of a partner. People encounter members of the opposite sex through work, education, hobbies, mutual friends and aquantances, social gatherings, etc.