I care for her but I don't love her (11)

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-04 11:01 ID:OuJv9kM1

well it's the one-year mark crisis perhaps?

Why were you together in the first place? Did you guys have some common interests or something? If you didn't "love" or feel attracted to her in the first place... then perhaps you won't cuz it's been a year already.

However, if you initially had felt this strong attraction towards her... perhaps your lack of love"" towards her now is due to the fact that ... you're bored of her, and not that she's boring"".

Perhaps you were attracted to your gf in the beginning because she was a mystery to you... and now since you basically know all(or most) about each other... you don't feel any stimulation, or the passion from the relationship anymore.

Not sure, if this is your first relationship or not... but if so, this situation may occur again with your second girlfriend, because you may find them "boring" once you know all about them.

I would suggest this... take a break or something, go somewhere for awhile without your girlfriend. And who knows, perhaps you may find yourself attracted to your gf again.

What's worst is this, breaking up with your gf, and then realizing that you still love her. And then you get together again... and find her boring... and break up again...

Perhaps, give some room for her and yourself to do things of your own--rather than spending too much time together... =P

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