well um popular chicks hmmm i don't know all girls seem to have a social circle that they join by just chattering away.... it seemed a lot simpler on the girls side, i mean guys' side isnt that much different as well

i say join some organizations or clubs or anything that involves a membership of some sort

and as for the love thing, try to work on your appearance. i dont know what you look like, i dont care, and im not suggesting plastic surgery if you think of yourself as a fugo.

but what i am saying is dress well, take care of your hair, makee up well i never liked make up on girls so eh, play sports so you feel better about yourself and etc... yea confident girls are generally appear to be popular and cute

and if it helps i love you. not in a i will stalk you from now, but in a Barney song way since your a 4chan person as well
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n4MNCkErQVw&feature=related

"i love you, you love me, we're a happy family~~~"

and that alone feeling..well I had that feeling once in high school after a break up but um welllllllllllllll yea you can always talk to people, you can email me at downloadnova5@gmail.com

jokes and unlikely-to-be-accepted advices aside... first step to fixing that problem is to drag yourself out to places, even if you dont know what you could possibly do with the people there... im not saying goto random places, just places you know are popular among your age...