>>26 hath spoken.

Seriously, though, OP - congratulations on the weight loss, please continue this "virtuous cycle." However, your self-assessment sounds flawed (not that we aren't all flawed, but...) you are too charismatic so people don't like you? How does that even make sense? You sound like you're bragging about your personality flaws, even taking pride in the fact that others don't accept you, as if that makes you beautiful and unique.

Forgive me if this is too harsh, I'm just honest like that.

It would help if you could give concrete examples, too, so that we wouldn't get these ideas from your lofty, abstract conclusions.