>Whenever we argue, he doesn't understand why I'm upset and always wants me to tell him. But I want him to be able to figure out on his own sometimes.

That's what most females expect from males and that's what most males hate about females.

>I'm a sophomore in high school now

Problem spotted

>I've gotten into so much trouble for/from him

Overall, it seems to me that this is a problem of depending, you depend on him and I believe that is not love. You need to define your priorities and he cannot be the top one.