I would want Thunder to give me advice on romance in a time of need ;-;
......aaaaaand we're back online.
somewhat.
not really.
I just got a message from him saying that he "understands my aggressiveness" but he really is very genuinely busy. He promises to call me...
I don't want to be waiting around for him, though, and at this point I don't plan to. Self-righteous and alone doesn't look so bad anymore...
I'll message him back, but in a day or two. He says being "sketchy" means being too tired to respond to messages - what does he think I expect from him? A hello would be fine. It doesn't take that much energy to text...I don't always have to see him, if that's what he thinks, but he apparently doesn't get that.
In fact, you don't even need to message him back on this... just let him call. He will... and if he doesn't, I think there's nothing more you can do.
>>231 yeahyeahyeah, this guys got it!!
If he wants you then he'll call!
Just for the record, physical beauty =/= good/hot/cool person. I dated a fucking gorgeous female for awhile, who was a total bitch and more than a bit mentally unstable.
As for OP, I think he's feeling overwhelmed by a number of things right now and is avoiding talking to you because he's worried about that adding more pressure and about being in a bad mood and saying or doing something stupid.
I think your best bet for right now is to ask if you can bring him some take-out when he's doing his homework or something. That helps with his financial burden, his time issues, him needing a mental break from what he's doing, and gets you a moment to connect with him. When you talk to him, mention that you understand that he's busy and apologize for being selfish, then mention that you just got a bit upset when he didn't call you on the 20th like he said he would. Leave it at that.
Have you tried asking him to xxx in your eyesocket? Thats always a turn on for a guy...
I feel this thread has run its couse. sigh But it just doesnt seem right to leave the last post as a 'xxx eyesocket' comment. Anyone have words of wisdom to kindof end a thread like this?
Life is short. If you want something, don't wait. Go for it with all your being. If you cant get it, then you won't regret failing.
Whatever you do, Thunder, I hope you will find your happiness.
Hey guys. Thunder here.
I'm surprised to see that this thread still generates interest...Looking at it makes me kind of depressed. I'm still here and posting in /love/, but I'm simultaneously obsessed with romance and also wanting to take a break from it at the same time.
I haven't messaged him back. I don't want to >>234 because it feels like I am throwing myself at him. Like we've said...if he is really interested, he will contact me, right?
Argh. I don't even want to be thinking about him anymore.
I did a good job putting him out of my head these last two weeks. But today I saw this thread and I stalked his facebook. Every time I saw a girl post on his wall I wanted to punch them. ＿|￣|○
There is a weird compression feeling in my chest...
I am trying to put it out of my head. Thank you for your support, guys. You are, as always, wonderful. And I think you always will be.
Thunder, he doesn't like you and never did. I'm sorry that I have to be so blunt but we all need it at times, my advice is to move on and get back in the game, next time you're in this situation I'll guarantee that you can handle it much better.
Also, as a rule of thumb, if someone says they'll call you, if they haven't called within 2/3 days get in touch, if not then just leave it, nothing is less attractive than clingy people. For example, to win my girlfriend over I ignored her at times and was intentionally vague other times, this let me know if she really wanted me, she showered me with affection but played a similar game. We've been together 8 months on and off.
Good luck hun.
nooooooo thuuuunder-chaaaaaaaan
you have lost the fighting spirit!
MY FLAMES OF PASSION HAVE BEEN PUT OUT!
it...is...oover...
dead
ps: good luck in the future
Sadly, I think >>240 is right. If he shared even of a sliver of your feelings for him, he would have at least said something. Optimistically (Also Improbably) he could just not be saying anything out of fear that a beautiful, intelligent girl such as yourself, would reject a /b/-tard like him.
God, now that was a struggle.
>>243
At the risk of sounding desperate, do you want to talk off-site Thunder-san?
Also, for anyone wondering, the girl I mentioned in >>240 lives thousands of miles away :(
Yes, I do, Lonely-chan. I can't leave my info, though (too easily identifiable) but if you want to leave yours I will certainly contact you!
aw yay!
ONE HAPPY PERSON FROM THIS THREAD
not all sadness!
i wanna talk wit Thunder-chan too!
striker_20002003@yahoo.com
plz write soon!
Added you on Y!IM, soccerfuu.
mind if you write a quick letter to the address? y!mail is being funny today with IM
>>251...Thunder-chan...i found out i can use Y!IM online...i should be on now...(write an e-mail if i don't respond)
Would you mind giving a back story quickly as 4/5 of the thread is missing and I'm a new lurker? If you don't want to then that's fine too.
post thunderchan!!!
Intriguing. Please continue in your exposition!
awww continue to post!!!
Well, something that I never told the first time around is that we actually kissed. Why didn't I tell it? I was nervous and wondering if it actually meant something, or was it the result of being drunk.
--OLD POST--
[at his place] he introduces me to his roommates, joking that he's bringing a girl home to freak out his conservative Christian roommate. (I am hoping beyond hope that he likes me that way) His roommates are kinda frat-boy looking and very attractive. Not as attractive as him, though...
We end up doing shots of whiskey. They have a butler closet, apparently, a small, dark space for drinking in. He says, "Come in closer," and I can't help but think how this could be really romantic, since it's dark and they have fun lighting....
We do three shots and then he mixes a drink that he insists that we share. Surrogate kiss! 8D ...okay, lame.
I'm pretty tipsy by the time we start walking towards the train. He slows down to wait for me because I'm wearing heels, and he laughs when I point out that my legs aren't as long as his. We sit on the train together and he has his arm on the back of my seat - the alcohol emboldens me and I lean into him, a little.
(´･ω･`)
He's way too 1337 for me...-,- I mean, gorgeous, smart, funny, AND interesting?? He could have any girl...I'm not...not the kind that boys like this go for...
When we get to the bar, he says, "beer? dancing? Both?"
I say I don't need a beer, and he asks, "are you sure?" and then he suggests we split a beer. He asks me what kind, I say, "Heineken." He makes a pleased noise - "I was just about to suggest that very same brand."
I am reading too much into this, i know...
And then he asks me to dance.
Welcome back Thunder! :D
Didn't know about the kiss thing... this guy sure is weird. I'm too baked to make up any more insightful comment as of now.
Off to bed.
so was this... before he got "busy"??
>>263 Hi Thunderchan!! I blushed when i read this story, because i liked it so much!! :))))
so did something happen? is this why you're updating again?
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