I want to confess already (28)

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-03 01:52 ID:80yl4Vq6

Confessing is generally a bad idea for either gender. It puts the other person on the spot. The person you confess to will often pull the "I like you too but not that way" excuse.

Here's what you do instead: Set up a small quick date between just the two of you. Something like lunch together. Just the two of you. Keep the conversation light and positive, and afterwards, tell him that you enjoy spending time alone with him (that's all) If he doesn't ask you out, try another small date, and tell him you had fun again, and this time, also say it would be fun if the two of you could do it more often, and in different places. If he STILL doesn't ask you out (he might be a little thick) , you can either go in for the kill yourself and ask him out on a date (ONLY ASK FOR A DATE, DON'T CONFESS) or brush him off, because he probably doesn't want to date you.

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