young chicks (25)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-05 04:04 ID:p6S5O9H0

hey guys. last night i got really drunk and made a pass on a 14 yr old girl. she was really cute. anyway, one thing led to another and i got her number. im 18, i know its wrong in so many ways but im actually thinking of going through calling her up and going out with her. is that so wrong?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-05 04:21 ID:LApiuRAh

you know when you say "one thing led to another" it usually means sex is involved, but ok

and to answer your question, yes
half of your age + 7

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-05 06:54 ID:xj+ii8PP

Or plus four.

4 Name: soccerfuu9 : 2008-05-05 10:46 ID:mlDCyEtB

>>2, >>3...u both suck at math. It's half of >>1's age (18) plus 5.

Anyways...normally, I wouldn't constitute it unreasonable in my book. However, since 1) you were drunk, and 2) she's underaged...that made me wonder what actually happened for you to get her number. What makes me more worried is whether she was drunk when she gave you her number. That there will give you a lot of problems. She might wonder "how the hell did you get this?!"

For now...I agree with >>2: lay off and let it be. If sex is your goal...then have fun with the cops when they eventually get you.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-09 12:09 ID:btb6oq2S

are you sure is her number?
probably she only give you a number that is not hers....

just wonder....

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-09 16:29 ID:Heaven

ur only 4 yrs apart.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-10 19:52 ID:n6He2Vwo

this is clearly a problem for richard feynman

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-11 01:07 ID:671D8pIU

Meh. 14 - 18 isn't that big of deal. As long as you don't do anything illegal, she actually meant to give you her number (Although, I guess once you find out the answer to this one, it's already too late XD), and you're actually thinking of going out with her for reasons other than sex.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-11 01:21 ID:XgyzEZrF

>>7

"Mathematics are to physics what masturbation is to sex"

Richard Feynman

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-11 03:37 ID:5BVS9MlK

14 and 18? Major sketch factor. 18 is a legal adult. 14 is barely past puberty.

Yes, girls mature faster than boys, and yes, four years isn't a huge difference...down the line. But at this point in life, four years counts for a lot. You're at different points in your life, different maturity levels. It's a bad idea all around, not to mention very illegal.

>>2 has the formula right; half of your age + 7. It does make a difference.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-11 05:43 ID:pK5RMwuf

She's too young for you. Work with 16+.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-11 07:54 ID:Heaven

I'd love it if I could just hang out with a 14 year old girl... There wouldn't be any sexual tensions, and I think I could really use the company.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-11 10:02 ID:Heaven

>>12
....how old are you?

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-11 13:01 ID:Heaven

most teenage gurls r really annoyin though.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-11 23:41 ID:uTef2ogD

wait 4 years ;)

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-12 12:43 ID:Heaven

I dunno, we had a 16 year old living in our share house for a while, and she wasn't so annoying. I'm sure I was the annoying one... you know, what with the pressuring her for sex, and stuff.

17 Name: ure-kun : 2008-05-13 12:45 ID:XeEadoAe

>>14

urg, I agree.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-23 02:04 ID:Qi8/T9P5

When I was 18 I dated a 15 year old for a week and felt like scum. Couldn't go on with it lol.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-23 02:29 ID:IQlhZvgK

>>10
Amen.

Incidentally, I was semi-dating (aka having sexual relations) with a 14 year-old when I was 17, and I realize now that was overall a wrong thing to do. I don't think she was ready for the intensity that we quickly got into, and it just got a bit weird and risky.

I wouldn't recommend going further.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-23 09:56 ID:jmw6xLlj

Currently unduring an unrequited love with a 14 year old girl. ;_;

21 Name: lulz : 2008-05-23 19:24 ID:VS68VjRn

3 years max difference for 18-20 some year olds, id say. 2 is better, seeing as how maturity is....18/15 can work if the 15 is at older spectrumn, and 18 at lower. however, if she just turned 15, and youve been 18...no. 16/18? whatever.

14/18? no.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-27 20:39 ID:7/B/W+TX

I'll just join the discussion as I'm in a comparable situation. What about ~14.5 / 17.0?

23 Name: idkdude : 2008-05-27 21:30 ID:jE/7ize8

thats pushing it abit....mabey 15/15.5...but 14s pretty wierd. like, a senior in high dateing a junior high kid :/

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-07-16 22:36 ID:2q4aIQdv

the mother of the son of god was age14. At one time she was a virgin; and she might have had childen before hay'zeus was born. Plus the guy she was traveling with was much older than a teenager, not married to Marry, and DIDN'T knock her up? (because g'ODD spermed Marry's eggs)

So, SHUT the Fauk UP and go get your hole(s) wet.
Be aware of STDs! (and an OLD g'ODD that can Sperm your eggs.)

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-08-25 17:37 ID:ZAKSA/dd

If you were at a bar getting drunk with a 14yr old person, then... how'd she get into the bar?
If you were at a house-party making moves on a 14yr old person, then... she's at a house-Party LOOKING for action & giving out her number.
Tough call dude! Maybe her Dad(or Mom) is a cop and this is how they achive orgasm, by entraping a human being with freedom of chioce. Maybe she wanted ..some guy.. last night, but changed her tampon and her mind. Maybe you are soul-mates and she knew it before you did; and we'll see the hollywood movie in 25years.
Maybe... you should focus on the other 3.2 billion women on the planet, and let this one go. Maybe, if shes purseus you (more than once) and you wanna do stuff, then... wear a condomn everytime.

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