my girlfriend thinks i don't love her (14)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 04:10 ID:suNpKr9K

then she cried about it because she left somebody for me but thinks I don't like her but I really do like her what should I do?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 04:12 ID:3FSOkaA6

Leave her for someone else.

She's attention whoring in my opinion. Just wants reassurance that you like her.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 04:13 ID:L/uF9RW9

Like her.

But honestly, I have no idea. Try doing something special with her/for her. Take her to a restaurant she likes or something. Just try to work though it I suppose.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 04:18 ID:uLMkbOb9

tell her you love her?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 12:02 ID:QqEBbV6f

>>3
Don't do that, or she'll enter a whine/gift scheme.

Tell her you love her, but don't dwell on the subject. This is a shit-test, attention-whoring, if you want, and it's not a good thing for you. Don't validate this behaviour.

Maybe later show her some love in any way, but not right after she complained. Ever.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 12:49 ID:FX2932Jj

to counteract all these "she's attention whoring" replies (which may be true, I don't know) I want to ask the OP how your relationship is. How long have you been together? Do you tell her you like her or love her? Do you show her?

Because sometimes girls just don't know, guys. And sometimes guys don't know. Nobody's a mind reader.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 13:34 ID:GxlacG9F

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 19:02 ID:SjEA7oco

slap the bitch and tell her to make you a sandwich.

9 Name: bookee : 2008-05-27 06:19 ID:vpLLhbeQ

Do all you can for her. Show her you love her, show her you care. Then maybe try asking why she thinks you don't like her. And just calmly think about it and understand. A girl who sees a man that caring and understanding will be bound to see that he loves her.

Hope it helps!

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-27 07:25 ID:W6hkZKee

>>1
She left somebody for you? You'd have that? She's living with herself? I think it's time for the both of you to kill yourselves. Obviously you're both idiots, and this is premium idiot relationship content. Learn to handle it because you're gonna have a lot of it throughout your life.

IT WILL NEVER END

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-27 11:22 ID:700RaTDV

>>3
>>9

do not listen to these men(or women, or etc), obviously they have little or no experience in dating women

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-27 11:45 ID:6cfCAhs/

>>11
Or suck at finding people to date.

OP try doing more things with your girl that she likes, like going to an art gallery if she's the artistic type or going bowling. You don't have to spend money. And if your gf is shallow enough in order to think not spending $=not loving her,then she's not really worth it.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-01 16:31 ID:Hc5RWiSp

I agree with 12.

Tell her you're broke-poor and that you still love her and see what happens.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-04 04:35 ID:eO2SKp+p

She sounds like a teenager. Drop her.

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