Okay, my girlfriend broke up with me- about 3 months ago- and left me for another guy. I said "Well, I can't make you love me, so I guess I'll just let you go..." and she asked if we could remain friends. I said yes, and we kept in touch.

However, I gotta say, it's been tough. I really miss her, and I still need time to heal... unfortunately, she doesn't seem to respect that. When she asks me "Are you doing okay?" and I say something like "Eh, not really... but I'm moving forward, not gonna wallow in it, cuz that won't do nothin'. Don't worry about it too much", she gets pissed and is like "DAMMIT, WHY CAN'T YOU JUST GET OVER ME?!"

Well, the other night, she and I are chatting on AIM, and she says "Hey, remember when you and I used to (insert unspeakably kinky act here)?" Shocked, I said "Ummm... yeah, why?" "Cuz my boyfriend doesn't like it when I- oh, nevermind, you don't wanna hear it."

Well, that really hurt, and that just pissed me the fuck off. I called her out on her trying to push my buttons, and she calls me up crying, yelling at me and telling me I'm a possessive emo prick and that I just need to get over myself. I finally had enough and cut her off. I told her when she stops being a fucking cocktease and let me be, then maybe we can consider being friends. With that, I hung up on her and blocked her on AIM.

Unfortunately, now she's telling all my female friends about it and they're mad at me, saying that I'm a possessive prick who needs to get over himself. My sister- who is one of her friends- claims I am "throwing a hissy fit" and I need to get over her. I just gotta ask: is this true? Or is she just being a manipulative, crazy bitch? What the hell did I do wrong?!