Girls Asking Guys Out?? (32)

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-25 05:47 ID:GbISUBj/

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>>-Is it hard for girls to reject a guy they're not interested in?

i think it depends on the girl and the situation. If its a friend asking you out its especially hard because you like them as only a friend and you dont want to come off as a complete wench or make them feel unattractive, but its not as though we can change how we feel on the spot and saying yes to them would only lead them on.

othertimes if its someone you dont know well its a little bit easier but if they are a nice girl they will still feel some guilt because no one wants to be rejected and knowing you are rejecting someone and possibly making them feel like crap can make you feel like crap....

>>-Are girls concerned about what other people might think of them if they were to ask a guy out?

i cant speak for everyone but for me it would be a yes. more so my friends then just random people. if a majority of my friends dont approve of it, it would make me feel uncomfortable, especially if i dont tell them before hand and something happened later.

the random people do factor in a little bit cause if you are say turned down by the guy you asked out its going to make you wonder if it was your asking him out that made him turn you down in the first place.

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