There is a girl in my class but the thing is that I feel like I'm in love with her. I mean like we talk on msn a lot but we avoid talking to each other in real life. When I try to talk to her in real life it gets awkward and we just go on avoiding each other for the rest of the day. Any advice guys?
well if u have no problem talkin 2 her on msn den try talkin bout da same topics in real life n mayb it gets awkward bc she prob liks u 2 n u shud tell her but if u really can't think ov ne thin wit her mayb shes not da right 1 4 u but trust me u'll find da right 1 soon
>>1
What do you guys talk about when you see each other irl? What makes its awkward?
MSN kinda has that little buffer, its like you can pause and think of somthing good to say but in real life, its like...real life.
I'd say just cointinue talking about stuff you'd talk about on msn. Invite her to do a movie, thats good too, not much talking at movies, then u can talk about the movie after.
Give her a laptop as a present and ask her politely to go to the next room. Boot up,start msn and voila!
I have this exact same problem!
But I tried cutting our MSN conversation short & typed :
" GTG, Talk 2 you at school tomorrow! I'll tell you details then. TTFN! "
I guess the both of you are really super shy?
>>Too bad she hates movies... She says its too predictable... Then I tried music and she says its all the same...
If she was even interested in you in a friendly regard, she would tell you all about her movie and music-interests, even if these are blatant and boring subjects to bring up out of the blue.
The above quoted answers are just bullshit. Take a hint, she isn't interested in you, and if you weren't so oblivious you would realize she's just answering your approaches on msn out of courtesy. If it wasn't because you go to the same school and classes, and not to cause unnessecary drama, she would've blocked you a long time ago. No one wants to seem like an asshole.
Reality stings but deal with it. If you step back, you will see. If she asks what's going on, then at least she's thinking of you.
Act like there's nothing wrong, talk to her some, then repeat.
If she does it again and continues to do so, then she does indeed have some form of interest in you. Also this will cause her to think about you more, and that in turn might cause her feelings for you to grow, if there is even a trace of something to begin with.
But I doubt there is. I think that if you don't write her, she won't write you either. Your aquintance will reduce to nods passing eachother in the school corridors....
Some people just can't take a hint.. Personally I think that's kind of endearing sometimes, but most do not.
>>2 Holy fuck! Learn fucking English you asshole.
>>8 said it best. She is not interested on you whatsoever.
Uh, I'm not so certain she wouldn't see him as a friend. I was also a no movie no music type for awhile. She definitely doesn't want a relationship, though.