Getting a YES answer more easily(?) (8)

1 Name: lulz : 2008-06-08 20:47 ID:lHpl7pq7

so, theirs this girl (lol, wow, original eh?) that im pretty into...
but i hate regection. it sucks. generally, being the shy person i am when it comes to dating, i wait till i know if their intrested or not.

were ok friends, and i want to ask her out...but i dont want a 'no' answer. i dont even know if shes thinking of dating atm, but i want her TO if i ask.

so heres the deal- what is the best thing you can say/do to get that first date? such a cool/nice/different/intresting way that they'd practically couldnt say no?

i realy dont want to be the dude who just randomly 'hey, you want to go get something to eat friday'...
unless thats a good way to go...it has before for me, but only to people i know allready would say yes...
thanks in advance :)))

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-09 02:02 ID:eoFuD1K4

dont ask them to come out cos thats wussy. be casual about it and say something like "we should go get lunch sometime" or go catch a movie or something. dont act as if she is the one in control. women want a man in control because thats what we do best; they dont want a pussy who begs for their acceptance.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-09 03:29 ID:AIhIKCet

>>2
Says it harsh but has it right.

Ask "Let's go to lunch", or "Hey, I take you out to lunch on xxx", or even more ballsy "Ok, so xxxday, xxx hour for the lunch, don't be late".

Be directive and funny, and she's less likely to say no. Now that doesn't guarantee you what happens on the said "date"... the hardest part is still ahead.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-09 04:37 ID:gb7+OuPw

>>3

Watch out though, some girls may few pressured into going out with you and may read some of your actions as hostile because of this. If she's a shy passive kind of girl being direct may affront her and make her even shyer.

5 Name: lulz : 2008-06-10 03:38 ID:YGGUcvnj

bleh. #2 middle ""Hey, I take you out to lunch on xxx"," sounds about right :p

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-10 03:43 ID:AIhIKCet

>>4
Not if you say it in a 'funny/relaxed' way. It triggers complicity, and shows you're able and willing to take the lead. Which is especially effective on shy girls.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-10 03:48 ID:zc19Z0XI

Say it like this : Friday - Movies - Date - Be ready. (100%bonus effect is said at the end of the day,activity)

8 Name: lulz : 2008-06-11 00:57 ID:Gk5+Rhgz

thanks everyone. half those sound like me anyway :p

now i just need to do it....

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