Should I stay or should I go? (13)

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-14 17:20 ID:2O5YL0tB

Hey guys. OP here. I just got off the phone with him. I told him that I wanted to go for it...but the type of commitment he wants, at this point in my life, I am not prepared to give. Yes, I can say yes to a month of visiting, but anything more than that (he said maybe going for six months to a year of studying there...) I couldn't even envision. I live my life from moment to moment right now, and my main concern is getting into grad school, etc, to continue on with my life. I can't even see ahead one year into the future, nevermind three or four.

He said the one month visit is possible, but if I can't do it now, then he can't wait for me....he said he needs me too much, and a half-commitment is no commitment at all.

Right now I'm devastated and heartbroken. I have not stopped crying since yesterday when he told me. I know I might never meet anybody like him again...but at the same time, I couldn't give him what he needed from me. So, this thread is now about getting over heartbreak, guys.

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