>>6
He sounds instable and unreliable. Seriously, first of all, why does it have to be you who has to make the sacrifice? 6 months to a year?? He's already calling the shots and trapping you into a contract, not a relationship. Sure you can go now. IF HE PAYS fumes. Second of all, what right does he have to pressure you like this? If his love was really that great, then couldn't he wait for you? I would rather spend time feeling heartbroken for a few weeks or so, rather than throwing my next 6 months of my time in the hands of someone I've never met irl. He is being unreasonable and selfish.