Well, if you married someone who doesn't really care about you, in such a course, you will still become a desperate housewife. I agree with >>27, rather give both of the boy and yourself a chance to develope a friendship if possible. Losing a friendship over a crush is just not worth it. This is the same to the one that you fall for, if you actually know both of them better, you might look at them differently. In both cases, you can make decisions yourself that the best for you. Be yourself and good luck!