Okay ytd night i left another msg on msn...basically we were fluff talking for 1-2 lines the night before and i linked to the topic and basically agreed that the break up 4 mths ago was the best thing for both of us. hopefully that will lower down her 'desperation' shield.
hmm i'm southeast asian. i think she should be home already. argh. my travel options are limited atm (i'm conscripted in my country's army and will be for the next 6 months. this would be good for building my own life but sadly i got taken out of my combat role a year ago cos of a medical problem so now i'm a clerk) sadly, this also limits what i can do with my hair.
but i'll be heading for a day trip somewhere with my unit...that's in a month's time though.
how long should i wait before asking her out for a quick coffee?