Talking about sex infront of a person you're secretly attracted to? (4)

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-21 09:08 ID:sQxIZvfn

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Alright, those conversation examples were a bit formalized as they came from memory and I wanted to get the point across. We also talk about mundane things like how often our cats throw up and we talk at length about personal feelings and fears and bounce things off of one another. But ultimately it doesn't matter.

Perhaps how one feels about talking about these things will vary from person to person no matter the gender. Perhaps the willingness or reluctance is based in an individual's underlying goals; as in your example, some women get on these topics with the intent of going somewhere with them in provoking a response or possibly something more in the long run. A person who wishes to be more subtle may avoid "hot" topics like the ones mentioned in an effort to maintain their security by not making room for questions or suspicions to rise out of the branching thoughts of sex or love that would follow a conversation on either subject.

Or maybe I'm totally wrong. Any more input is welcomed.

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