gf wont stop begging for my attention (5)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 08:39 ID:fTDIv39E

every day all day, on her break, before work, during work, after work. fuck the list keeps going. its not like i dont see her either i usually see her nearly everyday for a good hour at least. we usually go out for dinner and what not on weekends or friday nights. she wont stop bugging me. before you cast shame on me for being an asshole please take into consideration the fact that i do infact love her but i need my own time sometimes. i grew up as an only child with a single parent where as she grew up in a huge family so i am used to being alone and can cope well with it and even enjoy it sometimes. how can i make her understand this without making it seem like im a fuckhead rude asshole?

tl:dr how can i let my gf know i need some of my own space without sounding like an asshole?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 09:02 ID:jMcliq2b

>>1
Seriously I am jealous of you as I am still a loner but...hey...seems that my friend also suffers the similar problem here...

It sounds like your girlfriend is lonely (or more precisely not used to be like one). Cringing on you 24 hours is a symptom of it....

My observations on my friend turns out that he gets his own time by making excuses even some stupid excuses like:

BF: Hello? Oh you sweetie what's up?
GF: soft voice Can your accompany me to shopping, now? I am lonely here...
BF: Sorry...I got no money....(turns off the phone)

Well don't know the nature of your girlfriend are, how she behaves, as my friends girlfriend is like a slow, soft and quite naive in nature. I was being told like this "If you helped a new butterfly emerging from its cocoon by yourself it may die but if leave it do itself it can be stronger.."

Makes sense to me...

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 09:31 ID:NBhskQBL

>>1
Wow, like, a FULL hour, EVERY day!?!?!? Dinner on weekends or friday nights! Give me a fucking... you're just serving up your GIRLFRIEND with quality time here aren't you?

So if I understand correctly you already do have 6 days a week for yourself, minus one hour per day? As a rough estimation? What kind of selfish bullshit is this?

I doubt you actually love her. I think you pity her for the sake of poking your meatstick in her every now and then, makes you feel marginally responsible for her feelings. I mean the fact that you want to retain her as your sex-pet. I don't think you consider her neither family nor friend, she's lower than that.

Seriously motherfucker:

>>how can i let my gf know i need some of my own space without sounding like an asshole?

You can't. Go tell her, be the honest asshole. I'm sure she'll be fine with that... For a while

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-24 17:38 ID:Heaven

>>3

>usually see her nearly everyday for a good hour at least.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-25 18:47 ID:Heaven

I love you, babe, but... "i grew up as an only child with a single parent where as -you- grew up in a huge family so i am used to being alone and can cope well with it and even enjoy it sometimes."

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