23 year old guy seeing 15 year old girl, mother opposed (59)

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-11 01:52 ID:XE9qGYmh

Hey, I'm 18 here and I've been with my boyfriend since I was 16. He is 27. I told him from the very beginning that we could not have sex, as it would be a class C felony in my state, until I was 18. He accepted this (better than I did, in fact >.<) He has taken a LOT of shit for dating me. But you know what? He has been more respectful of me than anyone close to my age I've ever met. I cannot stand guys my age. It is entirely possible that the OP is NOT a sexual predator.

OP you should know that most states don't allow teenagers to get emancipated before the age of 16. SO if you want to continue to have a relationship with this girl, you are going to have to deal with her mother. If you are serious enough to wait it out, and the bullshit that comes with it, you two could always continue to see each other in secret despite her mother's opposition. My mother didn't know about my boyfriend until; 4 months ago. Now she loves him, although she has no idea we've been dating longer than 4 months.

I'll tell you now, though--living with a secret that big and that potentially life-destroying for a long time is anything but fun, and it drove my boyfriend and I into depression. And DO NOT have sex with her until she is older.

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