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OP again. No, you're right and I understand that. I didn't want it to go anywhere necessarily but I wanted to meet him y'know just to see and also to kind of make the relationship we have real. I asked him about it and we didn't talk long and he just said he'd had bad experiences meeting people before but didn't have a problem meeting me. When I raised again the possibility of another group thing in a very roundabout way, he said that the town he lived in wasn't worth visiting.
I don't know :(. Maybe he just wants to keep it an online thing but that depresses me.