Do I move on? (10)

1 Name: Casiodorus : 2008-08-06 01:36 ID:uTSvQVz0

Hello, everyone. I'd like some advice from you all, if you'd be so kind as to provide. I've been with this woman for close to 4 years, and we were thinking of getting married.

Well, recently I've been talking to an ex of mine and she's made me completely change my feelings towards my fiance'. I've wanted this ex of mine for a very long time, however, I feel like I have absolutely no chance with her. She's said that she thinks of me as little other than a friend, but she has lead me on many a times before.

What should I do? Should I forget about her and keep going with what I currently have with my woman? Should I keep trying to win her over? Should I make a move and "see if sparks fly"? I don't deal too well with these types of situations. I've always had feelings for her, and feel that I quite possibly always will.

Should I move on?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-06 01:44 ID:rYy6Ub8D

Well if this Ex of yours told you that while knowing you are engaged, it seems she is just leading you on again. She probably just wants you to want her. So don't do it. Also you've already proven that you don't truely love your fiance either....so don't do that either.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-06 03:39 ID:4QEdJISk

Yeah, like >>2 said, if you're willing to give up your almost-finance then I'm not sure how much you love her.

I'd give up on the ex because if she's talking to you in such a way that would change your feelings towards your girlfriend, then she's not looking out for your interests.

I'd forget completely about the ex-- even go so far as to cut off contact with her so there are no problems in the future.

Most importantly, though, make sure you're treating your girlfriend correctly and giving her your FULL attention. If you want to chase after your ex, don't do it in a way that will hurt anyone else.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-06 04:35 ID:y6CXrzH/

>>1

rape them both

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-06 22:23 ID:1rAXLPG9

Why give up a good thing? Women want what they can't have, she is a classic example. Be good to your girlfriend now and she will treat you better than your could have.

6 Name: dumpthex : 2008-08-07 04:13 ID:3rJ0m/CA

Dump your ex, like cut all ties before she succeeds in ruining your life. I think you need revalue your feelings towards your girlfriend (without ex influence,dump the bitch), and move from there..but whatever you do, don't rush into your decision and if possible, tell your girlfriend that maybe you might not be ready for marriage.

Goodluck.

7 Name: bingo : 2008-08-09 19:24 ID:z48AD21j

Wow, you sound like an ex of mine. Go for what you have and not what you had. Respect what your ex says and don't try chasing after the past. The fact that you are considering chasing after her suggests that things aren't going so well between you and your current partner.

8 Name: CaptainKickass : 2008-08-10 06:57 ID:kMSIylDE

Dude sounds like you don't love your finance. So try and at least fuck your ex? Or are you settling? Well it's a pretty big question to trust to the internet...

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-12 12:47 ID:6vnwM6Zg

I wish I could manage my finances better.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 16:00 ID:KhjInFnr

>>1

stay with your fiance. your ex merely serves you right now as an image of things you used to have in the past. but you should leave it where it belongs. its nice to look at but dont dwell in it or youll lose the person who supports you now.

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