Am I overplaying? (second date advice) (7)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-14 17:58 ID:qze3eZhG

Hey /love/,

yesterday I've had my first date with a girl (me: 22/m, her: 20/f). She great, smart, obviously likes me. We've been making out and more since sunday.
Now, I've tried to be cocky&funny, a gentleman, mysterious, caring and autorative - problem is, yesterday I couldn't really think of much to talk about, so I played the mysterious, silent and autorative card once again, which seemed to have worked with her, but left me unsatisfied.

Now, I really need to know how to proceed. I guess, the best thing would be to make a date where we'd have something to do and talk about. The mystery/dreamy stuff might be working now, but I can't keep it up like that forever.

tl;dr:
What to do/how to act/when to go on second date?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-14 18:14 ID:WaIqY7M0

Just be yourself, you idiot.
That's the best thing you can do.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-14 18:42 ID:qze3eZhG

>>2
Dang. Thanks.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-14 19:43 ID:xkD/78zb

lol she probably thinks your act is cute

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-15 02:42 ID:ZufelEwg

Being yourself is the easiest and cheapest route in the long run.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-16 16:23 ID:TTBCLxSg

>>2
Thread's pretty much over with this comment. Don't put up an air of "mystery" just because you think it's cool. Just be yourself.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-20 20:39 ID:sfbM75ZB

being yourself is what youre going to have to be in the long run

you felt unsatisfied cause you werent yourself. do you want her to like you for you or for who you can act like?

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