How Should I be Taking this? (11)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-28 05:11 ID:wF3c0yMf

Alright, I've just been told by my friend that she likes me, a lot more than I thought she did. I've also liked this same friend for a while now. She's confused about the whole thing though. She's not sure if she wants to date me, because she's had a bad relationship before, and when it ended, her and the other guy couldn't really be friends anymore, because everything just wasn't "right", and she doesn't want our friendship to end up the same way.

However, she's also revealed to me some things about her. She drinks ( not extreme amounts ), this I already knew, and didn't really mind "too" much. She revealed that she smoked cigs, about a pack a week. Once again, I was surprised, but it wasn't a big deal. then she revealed that she smoked weed, about a month ago, and that she did it sometimes, but not often. This hit me right in the stomach.

See, I'm a straight arrow kinda person...and just this kinda threw me off wack. Im just wondering, "how" should I be thinking and taking this? Should I "get over it", "stay kinda upset about the whole thing", "hope she maybe stops doing it"?...Just wondering if anyone else has been in a similar situation and how you've handled it. I really like this girl, and I'm sure I can just not think about it, but it's just that in the back of my mind, it's still there, and it's just one of those nagging things I'll keep thinking every so often.

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