Need advice for conversation (18)

1 Name: Hitori Nakano-kun : 2008-09-10 03:01 ID:OCCjLuYQ

I am a guy, right now I have a girl I like in my college.

But, every time I met her, I kept thinking what to say to her.
Any advice what topic to bring?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-10 04:16 ID:kiSY6G8h

Hmm.. Why not tell her you have a hard time figuring out what to talk about with her, and ask her advice on what are some good topics to talk about with girls?

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-10 05:40 ID:zJmrChH5

Where do you most often come into contact with her? What is it that you like about her? Does she have any interests or quirks that may serve as good starter conversational fodder?

4 Name: Hitori Nakano-kun : 2008-09-10 06:25 ID:OCCjLuYQ

I worked at the same university with her (we are co-workers).
I usually bring the topic of our occupation, but I'm afraid if it will be a boring, because it's everyday talks...

5 Name: Urekun : 2008-09-10 08:45 ID:n5k+JtzK

Well, since she's in your college. You should ask her for help on a subject XD doesn't matter if you're good or bad at it. it's just an excuse to spend some time with her XD

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-10 10:09 ID:zKVCGzr+

talk about a wierd teacher, laughs are good. Girls don't know what to talk about either.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-10 10:17 ID:Heaven

Oh I see, you need... a line.

Saying something like, "Why do girls always play games?" then launching into some bullshit story about a girl who messed around a guy you know, then implying that all girls are like that works well. It compels her to talk to you because she wants to defend herself/her gender.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-10 12:13 ID:dlHaoLOj

Ask her about herself, things she likes for example, most people like to talk about themselves, when she tells you something about herself say something about yourself in return.

Music, books, food and movies are always pretty good standard topics.

9 Name: Hitori Nakano-kun : 2008-09-10 12:48 ID:71KT+26x

>>5:
I'm trying to learn the same subject she learn.
But, every time I offer help, she would decline :sad:

>>6:
I'll keep that in mind

>>7:
A line? I don't get it.

>>8:
I'll keep that too, I'll try.

Anyway, today is my bad day I guess... _| ̄|O
Whenever I go near her at radius of 500m or so, she would try hard to get far from me... Don't know if that's the truth but I just felt it.

I got back after work at 5:00 pm and I waited for her until 7:00, but when I walked her home, we didn't talk much... I'm afraid she is tired of me...

I guess I will 'disappear' from her until next week then.

Oh man... girls are hard to understand...

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-10 22:01 ID:Heaven

Orz orz!! -- possible weeaboo detected in thread!!

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-11 00:18 ID:/OpBXzer

Its you. Since when does ''orz'', have capital O?

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-11 00:34 ID:Heaven

>>11

> O| ̄|_

Since forever. Sentences begin with capital letters, ya kno'?

13 Name: Hitori Nakano-kun : 2008-09-11 02:07 ID:OCCjLuYQ

okay, okay. put that aside...

anyway, I'll keep distance from her for a while.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-11 04:59 ID:lNeO+xxf

did you try talking about the latest celebrity gossip?

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-11 06:00 ID:kDwZ2rs7

>>7

Ugh. That smacks of self-pity, which girls hate.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-11 10:36 ID:zKVCGzr+

>>7
She'd probably avoid him if he said that.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-11 16:01 ID:Heaven

>>10

This isn't /b/. Fuck off.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-11 20:48 ID:PIWOxpjn

>>17

Hows does what 10 said have anything to do with /b/? Weeaboo is a term for Wapanese, which alot chat/lurk on this BBS, and orz is just an internet emoticon. If you dont know what you are talking about why dont you fuck off?

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