Perfect (21)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-21 18:15 ID:/ow3P8PI

I recently came to university, I'm taking a rather geeky course, but its also fun. I've been here for a week now. On the lesson, we were divided into groups. There was a girl in my group. We all got on really well.

Because none of us knew each other, we hung around for a bit afterwards. I found out a lot about her, and. She is basically me. But a female version. Theres even a major chance she'll use this site but I'm not 100%. She's is quite closed about what she does, I haven't ahd the chance to ask.

I found out a secret about her, its embarrasing for her to say the least, and I kept slying teasing her about it, but nobody else knows. It was fun, she'd push me and things when I staretd going around that area, so I'd just keep probing deeper.

Now it comes to the point where I've read what I've just written, and I think. "Why do they care?". But this girl, I swear. She is perfect. I've had one girlfriend in the past, but she was barely a proper one. Ah.

Should I just tell her on the first week in? Or is this really too soon.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-21 18:24 ID:2SVldR7a

Don't over think it, I reckon telling her straight away is kinda pointless, If you are getting on really well anyway surely it is more fun just to let things happen naturally? Just enjoy the progression without pushing it too fast.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-21 18:47 ID:lZQBNWLf

I wouldn't do it just yet, but maybe in a week or so ask her casually out for something after school.
Don't be too eager, but also don't get friend-zoned because you wait too long.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 05:25 ID:t0Rmf7ES

Lol ( ^_~); tell us her secret ¿maybe? PLZ

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 06:48 ID:nEAtabFJ

>>4 Bad idea! If she does indeed frequent this bored that could be a fatal mistake! And even if she doesn't that would be really mean and a total abuse of trust.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 08:04 ID:CFBpvGPK

>>4
Ha, I dont think so. Its pretty funny though. In a way it sort of links us, in perverseness at least, but thats all I'm going to say.

Classes start in an hour. :3!

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 08:06 ID:CFBpvGPK

Hm. My tripcode changes now? Sucky University Interbutt. I doubt this will develop further anyway.

8 Name: !Munww6W.mQ : 2008-09-22 08:07 ID:CFBpvGPK

And for a final humiliation I put tripcodes in the wrong field. Godamn I suck.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 12:14 ID:Heaven

Ah, being young is great.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 12:30 ID:Heaven

Michael?!

11 Name: !Munww6W.mQ : 2008-09-22 15:41 ID:CFBpvGPK

>>10
Sorry, no.

Came back from the lesson just now. I didn't get a chance to sit next to her, she came in a little late and I was sitting next to some people from the group last week.

Ah. She wore a baggy top too. Sigh. I'm such a perv, I kept taking sneaky little glances. I talked to her a little, but this was our first week of doing proper work, so I spent a lot of my lesson time focused on the task we were given.

She started talking to some people in my group, of which I was insanely jealous. I didn't have anything to add to the conversation, so I just kept drawing. I listened though.

We also walked around town with some other people, I talked to her a bit then. Ah. I like being with her. I'm so glad I was in her group for the first week, it gave me an excuse to ask her for her number. :3

I'm going to ask if she wants to walk around town tomorrow. We're both new to the area anyway :3

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 21:31 ID:C9hbPAs8

Go to her, say this "I'm sincerely sorry, but this is starting to disturb me, so I'm going to ask this straight. I have a crush on you, would you like to go out someday?"

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 23:15 ID:d8t1eICu

>>12 "starting to disturb me" lol, you could probably phrase it alot better than that, but I stand by what I said in post >>2, don't push things, but as >>3 said dont get yourself "friend-zoned" either... Just see how it goes and wait for the right moment to tell her how you feel.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-23 02:26 ID:J0X+ke40

uhm.... Ask her out on a date instead and let her figure out how you feel from dating? If she's like you, chances are she'll figure it out pretty quick, and if she's interested, she'll ask you out too... Or maybe just ask her to hang out and watch anime or do computer stuff or whatever floats your boat.

15 Name: !Munww6W.mQ : 2008-09-23 09:53 ID:CFBpvGPK

O hi.

I sometimes ask her if she wants to go to a coffee shop or something, or come out at night to a pub, but most of the time shes busy. It is the first few weeks of University anyway, I think I'm going to leave it for a while. Maybe try and figure her out more.

Thanks.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-23 23:28 ID:t0Rmf7ES

Bad News.

Studies can busy people and might be considered important, but if she thought you were AWESOME HOT STUFF she would jump at the opportunity.

She doesn't like you enough, go find somebody else.

17 Name: !Munww6W.mQ : 2008-09-25 19:47 ID:/ow3P8PI

Ah. We spent all day together yesterday. :3, and a lot of today. I know you don't care but ah. This isn't interesting is it.

It was fun. Girls :3

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-25 20:04 ID:ldxiGEs4

>>17
We care!
I'm glad it went well.
What'd you guys do?

19 Name: !Munww6W.mQ : 2008-09-25 23:49 ID:mYs6+fvl

>>17

Well. Our lecture ended, I had to sign the regitser. She waited for me, and we went and had coffee. We're both new to the town, so I suggested that we got lost, which we did for a few hours. We came to a crossroads, back to university or through a shopping centre. She chose to amble around the shopping centre, so I agreed, obviously.

We walked talked all the way, and walked back to the university. When we came to her halls, We hung around outside, I wasn't sure what to do, I wanted to goodbye hug her but I didn't.

She kinda invited me to the library later that day, we both needed to go anyway. Spent 2 hours messing around and talking.

ah.

:3

In a way I hope she reads this. She's quite a tease over texts too. Hmm.

20 Name: !Munww6W.mQ : 2008-09-26 01:53 ID:CFBpvGPK

oh.

Nevermind. Things like this always happen. Guess I won't be posting in this thread anymore.

2:52AM
Night.

21 Name: sage : 2008-10-05 13:01 ID:Heaven

OP:

Well I went out with her and her flat yesterday. Her flatmate called me over and asked me if I liked her. After a little mumbling I said yeah.

Later, girl I like was asking whats up, what were we talking about? We'd all gotten a bit drunk, thats not really an excuse though, is it. I just said. "Oh, she rapes kids". Yeah.

Internet.

The whole bunch of us go back to her flat and sit in the living room. Girl I talked to found out what I said, splurted that I like girl I like right in front of her. Awkward silences. I left after that.

Sigh.

She was perfect too.

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