korean girls (27)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-03 02:44 ID:AzYB1i0X

i have the same bus route as this korean girl she's very shy and cute. when i talk to her she it's very difficult since she's only been in America for 2 years so it's hard to relate with her.I been in America since i was 6,im from hong kong. do you guys have any advice. like topics or how to approach her next time? please no pick up-lines

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-03 03:27 ID:sNAeLFhP

North or South Korea? Well, whatever. Try asking her what it's like where she's from (if it doesn't bother her).

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-03 03:55 ID:AzYB1i0X

well she's from south korean and i have already asked where she's from and about her home town

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-03 04:16 ID:sNAeLFhP

Well, just ask questions about her interests (books, TV shows, hobbies).

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-03 04:31 ID:E4CpRY5C

>>2

Koreans lol at you if you ask from if they're from the North or South. Cause people from the North aren't, you know, aren't allowed to leave the country.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-03 09:46 ID:Heaven

Asking lots of questions is annoying. Tell jokes and stories. Be interesting and cool.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-03 17:25 ID:lNjiyVtT

Mention Big bang OP.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-03 17:31 ID:BvyfktZ2

just talk to her

It will make everything a whole lot simpler

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-03 20:20 ID:YWk2WZmr

Talk about pets, then rabbits, mention how they like to always be close and "cuddle" and make rabbit love all the time, then about how awesome it would be if you two were rabbits in a cage...

10 Name: adawg45601 : 2008-10-04 03:23 ID:iciLFGfm

if there from south korea there can be a few common interests...
korean dramas (especially these), korean movies, and learning korean (the language). I know some of these will work for you because I have a female south korean-friend whom I'd like to get closer too.

these are just some of the things that we can relate in.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-05 10:57 ID:xKmC0EsU

I don't know if it's just me but I hate it when strangers talk to me on buses. If you can try to find out where she is going (school/work) and try to get to know people from there. Did I mention that I'm a korean girl too?

12 Name: fartman : 2008-10-06 21:16 ID:/UdysoCS

>>9

>Talk about pets

talking about pets is always nice and safe. ask questions on something she surely know a lot about. korean cooking or things like that.

maybe you can ask how to cook dogs. cooking and pets at the same time. that will dolol

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-07 21:50 ID:Wn9mcfpS

Ask her if she knows well the city you live and propose her to bring her visit some nice places

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-08 04:15 ID:4okp2hgy

Act confident. Make her feel safe to be around you.

15 Name: the bear : 2009-01-30 20:12 ID:QMU28bIG

you should definetely just learn the krn from her. she might become really interested if you tell her you have a dog. get one if you dont. prefferably a meaty one, it cooks better in the stew. and just dont forget to make the kimchi

16 Name: wen : 2009-01-31 16:55 ID:nM/tOFOs

ask her about korean culture, u can act like u interested in korea :D

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-13 04:25 ID:ghjO+aQr

>>14
>>16
good~~~

say...
do you think you have done with the small talk?
if not, do more~ hehehe

it would be better if you ask about her difficulties in US and give her an advice or even any story that you or your friends experienced later when you just came to US~
funny experience is recommended~
that way you could made her comfortable~
then ask her IM~
and then her phone~
then ask about going for the movies~ ^^
and so forth~ ^^

you could use >>13 if you two are already have her phone number~ (how could you meet her if you don't know how to contact her?)

but you could do >>16 slowly~ don't act like you are a korean freak suddenly~ it will make you look too desperate

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-14 23:25 ID:0znSjmFK

Tell her that you hate Japanese, and they are the source of all the agonies that Korea has ever experienced in the course of its history.
She would suck your dick like she got married with you 30 minutes ago.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-15 13:13 ID:zHfZhPs2

hey man, try to learn easy korean language and say like 'how are you?' in korean, and if you got it wrong then you could ask her to teach you, then go on from there. korean chicks are really hard to get close to if you are not korean. dont talk bs with her, telling her some stupid jokes or stories as i think its useless, hey they know it when you are too hard. hope you make it and good luck, update as well please.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-16 00:53 ID:ghjO+aQr

>>18

not every korean hate japanese~

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-16 10:35 ID:FPWt3mKS

TALK TO HER ABOUT STARCRAFT!!!

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-16 18:27 ID:zanOK/eD

just talk to her like you normally do. if you act weird and shit she will just think you are some weirdo who is trying to rape her and shit

23 Name: Demo-Man : 2009-02-17 09:11 ID:/CwhtFel

I heard korean girls are short-tempered. Let's hope that chick yer' meeting ain't short-tempered one...

May da Force Be Wid Ya :)

24 Name: hate-love : 2009-03-29 16:06 ID:GtcgswBn

i think a french poodle will do the trick cute and cuddly as well. and did i fail to say that koreans love french cuisine? it shud look delicious on a plate too

25 Name: chewbaka : 2009-04-12 16:28 ID:GtcgswBn

>>21
actually you need to talk about ragnarok! and lee mujin whatever

26 Name: OTL : 2009-04-12 19:31 ID:avC0i9MW

All these stereotypical answers are bothering me...

As a Korean girl with lots of Korean friends, I can truthfully tell you (OP) that most of these would just turn her off.

Having interest in Korean culture, etc. would definitely get her interested enough in you to start talking. From there, it's your duty to figure out what her interests are. I wish you the best of luck, but remember that stereotypes never tell the truth about a single person.

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-13 20:05 ID:HSmDUFVE

Tell her that you are interested in learning Korean, then ask her some questions about certain Korean words or sentences, have her write them down and ask her to quiz you on them next time you're on the bus together. This way you have an excuse to come talk to her every time. Also, do ask to move the study lessons to a local starbucks or something. It's great because every time you cant think of something to say, or there's an awkward silence, you can just ask another question about Korean language.
Also, ask her if she has English classes. Make sure she knows you're a native speaker and offer to help her with her homework. Maybe she will just start using you to correct her papers and stuff, but hey, you gotta start somewhere.
If you want for her to come to your house, i've noticed that Korean girls really like it when you cook for them. So when you get a little bit closer with her, offer to cook some food from your country for her. I'm sure she wont turn you down if she's at all interested in you.
Other than that, talk to her gently and clearly, don't be agressive, make her laugh, etc. etc.
It wont be harder to get close to her or even date her if you're not Korean. It will only become an issue if you want to actually be her boyfriend.
Anyway, GOOD LUCK!

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