ps. we are now really happy and becuase i didnt sleep with him, like i normally would, there was no freaking out and we got the emotional stuff all expressed nicely and ive learnt alot about expressing myself to him now.
(just make sure he doesnt find out i was sleeping with another guy to releive myself and were good) :)
just with your "fuck buddie" make sure that they KNOW it is ONLY sex, no emotions, if you can pull that off you should see some change.
all the best