How do I meet girls? (12)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-27 23:46 ID:1tclSx+S

Dear 4ch. I've got severe problems with meeting and getting along with girls in my area.
All girls I've fallen for lately live hours away, which've been a major contributor to make none of them become relationships.
For the time being, moving is not an option.

My classes in uni are dominated by boys and the few girls that exists are either together with some in her own circle of friends, way older than me or just not interesting for me for some other reason.
As I don't find any clubs at uni interesting I don't participate in any, and since I don't drink I'm not partying in the weekends, so I'm really just spending too much time home in front of my computer.

I would really like to stop sitting home too much and rather get to know people, but I don't know where to start.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-28 00:06 ID:h2PFFHU5

What are your interests?

What are you studying?

Give us more data about yourself!

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-28 00:16 ID:1tclSx+S

I study electronics, and my major interests would be anime and photography.

4 Name: kamikaze lobster : 2008-10-28 00:39 ID:wvMCdmPA

nice man that's awesome i myself don't major in anything yet. but i also enjoy manga and the occasional photo w

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-28 01:14 ID:1t0z1Hw0

U = I

so I cann't help you, sorry :(

6 Name: Ele : 2008-10-28 08:24 ID:wGpjAmyY

I know how you feel, I'm an electrical engineering major and the number of girls in my classes could be counted on my fingers and half my toes. I think if you really, really are committed to meeting new people you're going to have to force yourself to try new clubs. If you have friends who do have parties, go, even if you don't drink. Maybe you'll meet someone there (and dammit, just talk to them. You WON'T die on the spot and hopefully everyone else will be too drunk to notice your awkward advances).

Otherwise, you chose the wrong major man.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-28 09:28 ID:8DfGbxJ9

>>3

Considering your interests I would check if there are photography and anime-related activities in your uni. And if not, then have a wider look. There must be more stuff available in your town.

Let us know how that goes,...

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-28 21:06 ID:1tclSx+S

There's no anime-related activities, and the photography club has been dead for years. There's really no active clubs suiting me there.
It's a small town, so there's nothing interesting outside of the uni either.
If there were, I would've joined something already.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-28 23:40 ID:W+T7WYhn

if the photography club is dead, why don't you restart it? This would a good reason for you to leave your computer, and would make you have a lot more contacts within the university,...

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-30 22:12 ID:HGM8kS/w

Although it is hard especially at a university conclave within a small town to meet new people, I make myself do as much as I can outside of "school". Even if you're not really into it, try maybe joining a society or group doing something that you haven't done before, but have maybe toyed with the idea... you get what I mean. Maybe you'll actually enjoy it... I always have to think about that scene in american pie when chris joins the choir for the birds...

11 Name: Soul : 2008-10-31 05:35 ID:u0x3lDEi

I saw a shooting star tonight. I wished for everything to work out ^///^

12 Name: Soul : 2008-10-31 05:37 ID:u0x3lDEi

>>11 Ah! wrong thread, sorry!

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