Number one advice, don't ask girls for advice. I've noticed that there is a divide between what women say they look for, and what they actually find attractive. Number two, you need to be yourself, to a degree. If you play a role to hook a girl, you won't be able to keep up the facade forever. Number three, despite number two, you need to NOT be several things: clingy or desperate or accomodating. Girls, will get the impression that they're doing you a favor in a potential relationship. And they will feel they can do better. You don't have to be a douche (although it helps with girls with low self esteem...but you really don't want those types) and you don't need to be a faggot like Mystery (beep boop beep, according to my calculations, I should neg). But you can't be her little manservant. You have to have a backbone. It'll make you look stronger, smarter and confident. And confidence, is the big winning factor. Confidence, turns the table, making her feel you would be a good investment; if you act like you're worthwhile, she'll think you are worthwhile. But bringing the point back to 2, it helps if you play off real character strengths here, rather than fake ones. That, I think, is the key to good long lasting relationships.