is this love?? or not. (5)

1 Name: anonymous : 2008-11-04 15:23 ID:4B7t80Dw

hey there, i just wanted to know if these signs mean that im in love or DEEP love...

the guy ive been talking to for awhile, is very sweet. honest makes me laugh all the time, non stop. hes constantly telling me that he loves me so much, and doesnt know where he would be today if he didnt have me or if we werent together. he sends me a text every single day and always has at least 2 or more full pages of how much he loves me and so on...He's always saying that he wants to hold me in his arms, and never let go until the day he dies. hes always wanting to hangout with me and wanting to show me how much he loves me, because he says words cannot explain the love he has for me. he NEVER wants to say goodbye, he talks to me for about 8 or more hours every night. always texts me and tells me he cant get to sleep cause he cant stop thinking about me. he thinks im his favorite topic. and the last thing is, he would take the chance of risking his phone and risking the chance of getting electricuted, he had to take a shower, and refused to let me go, he didnt want to say goodbye even though he could text me when he got out, but he didnt. he told me he was going to wrap the phone up in plastic and take it in the shower, and continue talking to me. and he did! every night at 11:11 he makes wishes about me. he tells me hes always wanted to buy a star and name it after me, so then whn we look at the stars he would be looking at me. and thinking of me. i think thats so sweet, that he does all this. hes always calling me baby, or sweetie. but i dont know if it means were in deep love, or in no love.

for the past month, i havent been eating all my food.. maybe half or a fourth of it. and my stomach has been hurting lately, and the other night my mother told me i was pale. i explained everything to her, about how we have a relationship and everything he says and does. she says im love sick. i dont know what to think. ive seriously never felt this way about a guy before in my entire life. so i would like to ask you, for your opinion. IS THIS LOVE??

                             thank you, 
Anonymous

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-04 18:21 ID:JgnikUa4

Well,... It's clear he's in love with you. As for you, you don't say much of what you think of him, although the fact that he makes you laugh and seems sweet to you are encouraging signs.

As for your stomach ache, you are perhaps overwhelmed by his passion, and this is causing you stress. Maybe you should advise him to be a bit less excessive in his behavior. You are happy that he loves you, but it does not help you that he risks electrifying himself for your sake, you would feel terrible, if anything happened. And it's his job not to make you feel terrible.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-04 20:15 ID:Ebk0vviv

weird story..

he might just be a little bit obsessed.. xD
anyways, don't try to rely too much on this forum. take it with a grain of salt.

made that mistake twice xD

anyway's,
we can not tell you whether you're in love. it's something you have to decide for yourself.

yours sincerly,

anonymous

4 Name: erumesuuu : 2008-11-05 14:02 ID:F3fjxpG/

obsessed like a psychopath

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-05 19:32 ID:a4peUdcM

>she says im love sick. i dont know what to think.

"Lovesick" is the feeling you get when you fall in love with someone and are then seperated from them for some time.

My verdict:

1) You should see a doctor about your symptoms.

2) Your boyfriend is weird.

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