Step 1: Stop trying. (I did, I hung out with friends boy and girl without even thinking about getting together with a girl. Didn't do anything to imply it either. I was having fun, but it never came)

Step 2: Start having fun. (Like it said above, having fun, socializing, and learning new things. It wasn't force, but still nothing)

Step 3: Profit. (Whats this supposed to mean? More friends? yeah, I got closer to all sorts of people, but nothing more than friends)

Right now it feels like what I'm doing right now, not worrying and just enjoying the moment just isn't getting me anywhere. Its easy to say don't worry about it, but when it comes down to seeing that all your "progress" wasn't doing anything makes me feel really pathetic. I've never been approached or given signs at all or atleast I think I didn't. Just continuing on not trying and just having fun is like playing a videogame just for the storyline. Sure you get the basics, but you miss all the great things in it