So as my single friends, one by one, find people, I've been bitten by the loneliness bug again. I have been getting to know a lot of girls and such, making friends and acquaintances. I'm interested in a few of them... But I've yet to take that next step. It's not that I'm particularly socially awkward, (though occasionally I am), it's moreso that I'm not sure of whether or not the feeling is mutual.
People always say that they drop hints whenever you're with them... I've never really understood them. Maybe I'm oblivious to them, who knows.
So my question to all of you is: What exactly are those damned signals and hints that I hear so much about?
I'm not good at reading signal also.
Usually it's easier for me to read signals from words that they say. Like a girl will say things like she is free on which day, probably suggesting u ask her out, or say about what she like or don't like, maybe suggesting that what u should do to get her :))
Anw, I'm totally sucks (_ _ #)
But I know from my friends that when girls r talking to a man that she like, they have perplexed moment when that guy look into their eyes. Try to look into a girls' eyes for a couple of second and see her reaction, it might work.
Some easy signals are:
Basically accepting to spend time with someone is a sign of interest, which is something you can build on.
Whatever you do, don't let them be too sure of what you want with them, until the last moment. You're not fun anymore when you're taken for granted.
I'll throw out some of the signs my ex gave me.
-She arranges for the two of you to do something, in my case it was meeting her at a park to walk her dog.
-I was leaning against my truck while she leaned against hers as we talked, she left her car to stand next to me, shoulders pretty much touching.
-Telling you a movie thats in theaters looks interesting.
Granted, this are incredibly obvious, but I have a feeling she knew that she had to be obvious with me. Usually a girl can read that unless she's really inexperienced.