Some say heights dont matters. Do U agree ? Especially when it comes to relationship ? (12)

1 Name: Tnk : 2008-11-25 06:22 ID:JX7ieoaF

So, here goes. I've been thinking about my height quite a lot. I'm 171cm, which is between 5'7 and 5'8. Pretty average for an Asian guy rite ? Not that tall and not that short. Quite confident anw, cuz I noe guys who are shorter than me.

Anw, here's the problem. My girl, we r not a couple yet but going fine, is 167, which is just A BIT shorter than me. It means when she start wearing heels, that's it for me. I will LOOK SHORTER than her. And then ppl start to look at us like we r aliens, which is pretty UNCOMFORTABLE xD... I'm lucky that she don't like 2 wear heel that much...

But how do u think about it ? Does height matters u in relationship ?

U girls like a guy at least 10cm taller than u, or u girls like guys that r nearly equally tall or even shorter than u ?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-25 13:32 ID:VOROSnHI

Guy here,...

There are only two people to consider here: Is she ok with the situation? Are you ok with the situation? it seems the answer for both questions is positive. As for all the other people, just ignore them, you are not going out with them, but with your gf.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-25 22:38 ID:waAI1oni

Tall girls are just fine with me. People can snicker and stare all day if they want to... at the end of the day you're the one with the girl, short or no.

4 Name: Mallow-chan : 2008-11-26 05:07 ID:/wW7YXjX

girls really don't care about height as long as they like the guy.
plus a lot of girls think that short guys are cute.
if you really think it's weird that she is slightly taller than you, convince her to wear flats.

5 Name: Tnk : 2008-11-26 16:42 ID:JX7ieoaF

Really ? :)

Uhmm.. It feels better.

Sometimes I just wonder if she feels uncomfortable when she can't wear heels when going with me xD...

I guess things gonna be fine anw. :)

Again, it's not a major factor, but sometimes I heard girls saying they won't go out with someone who's shorter than them.

They do consider guys' height ><"

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-26 17:11 ID:tBlC7H+z

Short asian guy here, only 168cm. I do feel women tend to look down on me. ;_;

7 Name: Tnk : 2008-11-26 17:34 ID:JX7ieoaF

Heh.. :P

I noe how it feels.

Walking around feeling uneasy at times... Coz those people just look down on me waiting to say : " Hi, kiddo " (_ _ #)

Lucky that Asian girls arnt always tall, they r about 165cm :P

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-27 17:22 ID:oKDnrLt4

Being tall(-er) gives the girl a sense of protection, but there are other ways; strong personality trumps all. Also knowing how to fight will help.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-28 06:31 ID:Ux/l906F

Short Asian guy of 172cm here, being short really sucks.

But look at the bright side, shorter people don't get arthritis as easily as taller people! ^_~

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-30 08:23 ID:ap3y+GYA

I'm 5'3" so many guys are taller than me. I think 5'7" is a good height in my opinion...! Plus, Asian boys are cute, especially Koreans. Too bad I am white :P

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-30 10:19 ID:lxLJggTg

i had a girlfriend who was 2' shorter than me, im 5'7 and asian. well she wore high heels too and she was taller than me for the most part. no one really cares too much if they see a short guy and tall girl.

honestly, who really gives a fuck if a guy is dating a taller girl only when she has high heels. if a someone ever told me they cared. id say "fuck u at least i'm getting to tap that ass later, what do you got? a left and right hand?"

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-30 10:21 ID:lxLJggTg

sorry i meant 2 inches shorter than me!

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