So this girl and i were in a relationship for about three months. on and off breakups because of her school work and the third breakup she told me i wasn't a good investment and she wouldn't prefer me ever. or ever talk to me. So just early this month she came back talking to me. but no romantic spark. I do want her back /love/ but i just don't see it happening. Plz halp.
This one's easy. If she really loved you there would surely be no doubt in her mind. Real love would always come before school work, in my opinion. In any relationship, you could easily work around school work. It is obvious she doesn't love you. You, however, seem to love her a great deal. Let me tell you, it isnt worth it. Move on to greener pastures. If she's talking to you, she probably wants to use you as an emotional sponge or something else devious. Why be so hung up over a rag like her?
What did she mean you weren't a good investment? tell her to F*** off!!
Don't get too attached to this girl. She's bad news!
>she told me i wasn't a good investment
Iceburn.
It's pretty clear she doesn't want you the way you want her. Steer clear.
yeah i agree, just fucking ignore her. Good investment, what a bitch! (but honestly, most women won't touch a guy with no job or future prospects, all bio genetic shit)
She obviously doesn't want to be around you. Don't get caught up in the loss, there are other girls out there. I think for your sake you shouldn't talk to her because that is like pouring salt on a wound.
OP here.
She's actually talking to me now. But no romantic sparks. Yet i do desire some. She's actually nicer these days.
Nobody said that you can't be friends, but you're probably better off finding someone else. I think the other commenters share my sentiments.
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I guess i am her friend now. But i do desire more. Does anyone have the same experience? and has anyone had any success?
Look, I have been in that same boat. All she is doing is using you.
Do you think someone you cares about you will use you? NO. So it is in your best interest to drop her for good. I was there too, and the moment I realized it I was a free man. Don't waste your time on her because in the long run it will not work out. So better end it now before you are too committed and it will be harder.
I know this hard to hear, but just stop talking to her, tell her you are busy with school work. Turn it around on her.
Pay attention here; if you do that. I promise you she will try harder to get your attention. But after awhile she will give up. So it is important you do not fall for her tricks.
But when you do drop, and you will. You must be committed in that decision and stick with it until you have moved on.
Good luck hopefully this helped.
wut? whta kind of nonsense is that? (as a girl) I've never
put someone off for that. I'll happily admit that I won't
look at someone who isn't at least some sort of pretty, job
prospects or salary I've never looked at.
i agree with everyone else....tell that bitch to GTFO of your life. cause she gonna where you out emotional and then leave you and start to be a bitch again. if wrong correct me on this STAY AWAY FROM THE TROLLING BITCH.
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