was i making the right decision? (7)

1 Name: ursa_minor : 2009-01-02 19:04 ID:IUgGbC67

lets start from here: i was close with this girl (codename: princess cus her name literally means princess in some language) for a really long time. we're close to each other so much and we connect a lot that we're like lovers. but we never "officially" together.. the farthest we could go is being best friends. but i guess it was for the best of us, because you know how worst things can be when you break up and we cant bear losing each other.. however, due to her parent's job, she moved out to another country 2 years ago. we still talk tho..

so: about a couple months ago, im "officially" dating this new girl (codename: sweets cus her name literally means sweets in some language haha) she is really different and i have very good reasons why im dating her. i care about her so much that i believe i can say that i love her..

problem: just recently, dad finally told me that im allowed to go abroad and visit princess this summer. and cus of that.. i have been thinking.. have i been missing princess a lot that i actually date sweets to replace princess's place in my life?

i might not word this case accurately. ask me if u need more info! please help!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-02 20:46 ID:nlOnxxTc

Impossible to tell from what you have told us.
However I would conclude, regardless of the lack of information, that you like 'sweets'. YOu haven't seen 'princess' in years, it is impossible that you still retain emotions for her, and actually if you did you would know. That you ask whether you do means thatyou don't in my mind.
Also, look at it this way. If you go and visit her and you both fall in love, etc., you have to move back. Relationship lasts 2 weeks or however long you stay. Relationship with sweet will last much longer if you cary it on well.
If you want however, go visit her, see if you can get sex or a kiss out of it or something material, and then go back to your real girlfriend.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-02 21:00 ID:TOm7Bviv

well since princess is basically out of the country I would say that you move one with your life. Basically get along with sweets now. As I read you're still young since you live with parents. It's still too early to even start thinking of moving out abroad just because of princess.

Just go on with sweets I would say and if fate doesn't allow it; well thats for later. Who knows how princess feels about you now anyway.

4 Name: ursa_minor : 2009-01-02 21:05 ID:IUgGbC67

im 17. i dnt live with my parents tho. : D im a foreign exchange student haha

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-02 21:08 ID:TOm7Bviv

ok...but still. Long distance has the cruel reputation of breaking a lot of relationships. No matter how good it is; without physical contact it's hard to keep the love around. Most ppl I know have broken up because they find it hard/ worth to keep it up.

6 Name: ursa_minor : 2009-01-02 21:16 ID:IUgGbC67

i see. i guess i just miss princess a lot. but i just had a phone call with sweets and.. i realized that i guess the one that loves me, and i should love, is th one who is close to me and waits for me in the hallway everyday. =]

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-02 21:43 ID:TOm7Bviv

thats your choice and a good one I must say.
Guess this topic is done then. Best of luck with your life.

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