Well... I went and so on... she said she had a good time... but as I feared it was difficult to have any one on one conversation with her... haven't gotten to resolving anything yet. Hope to do that soon.
Oh and surprisingly... I was let into their house. I can't remember if I mentioned it or not here, but even before dating her, I've known her for more than a year... and this is the second time I have been let in to their house. (I've known them because I hold a position of leadership in an organization which members of their family are involved.)