>>ITS NOT HOPELESS
If only.
I'm 25, getting ready to head off to grad school, and I'm even farther behind than #1 -- not only have I never had a girlfriend, I haven't even had a regular friend for eight years now.
So believe it when I say that time doesn't necessarily improve things. In fact, as the years fly past I realize that they're only hurting my chances even more; women my age want guys who are experienced, not guys for whom relationships remain as alien as they were in middle school. Any woman who dated me would essentially step back in time to the days when she dated clueless, fumbling teenagers.
At 20, that's fine; you're still young. At my age, that's lethal.
So, keep trying. Make use of the opportunities available to you, while they still exist. If you don't, you just might find that your train has left the station for the last time, and will never return. After that, you're just killing time until the end.