So, I don't know where everyone else is from, but around my habitat, the weather has been getting warm and very pleasant. The snow is melting and it's finally starting to show signs of spring. Along with this, I've been feeling my loneliness more and more as the weather becomes better.
Does anyone else get this? I'm not sure why this happens. Maybe it's the hormones triggered by the weather but I think that I want someone to share these moments with and, caught up in how wonderful it is to be able to step outside without 20 pounds of winter gear, I forget that I have no one. Then, it just hurts because it's like having to confront your loneliness all over again.
Does anyone else feel like this or am I alone as usual? :)
Rates of suicide and depression are a lot higher during winter than summer. You should feel fine, you are now confirming a statistic.
Maybe dreary weather is something that just makes you more happy. Sometimes you're only happy when you're depressed. At least that's how I feel sometimes.
Might be as well that you know spring time is for being in heat.. so i guess as a proper mammal you are looking for a partner to start building up a nest with :3
I suppose everyone's had a point so far. What can I say, I try to be a proper mammal especially since being a reptile didn't work out as well as I hoped it would.
I hope I'm not the only one on this one here. Maybe happiness hurts? I don't really go for that emo shite though. At least, I hope it's not true. Then again, intense happiness and intense sadness sometimes are difficult to tell apart. Still, maybe it's wanting to share a beautiful moment with someone and just not having anyone to share it with... I don't know.
Or I could admit that I'm just fucked upside the head. That works too.
I get this EXACT same shit. It sucks. Seeing other people having fun with girls is painful. I end up preferring rainy days.
Ya dude I get where your coming from. It was kinda the opposite for me. During the winter i had an anxiety problem and i threw up constantly for a couple weeks because i felt so lonely and scared. You just need to do something to occupy your time. Try to find something you love to do, and stick with it. Learn a new craft or art, or just go out and hangout with ur friends. Thats how im dealing with my anxiety right now, and I seem to be able to handle it.
I think that I don't get so depressed in winter since I'm just numb from all the gray and bleakness. Once it starts to get warm, and I start to realize how great it is to be alive, I realize I have no one to share it with.
It's funny how much the weather and climate has to do with how we react to our own emotions. It's also amazing that there are this many lonely people out there.
are there any friends that you can spend some time with? or anyone that is close for you to share this with them?
I really do hope you feel better.
I am actually diagnosed with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SADS)
...however, there's a twist: I am Reverse SADs, which means I get depressed during the spring and summer.
During the winter, I'm insanely horny and seek "warmth" within the confines of intimacy. In the spring and summer, everything is all balmy, sweaty (I have hyperperspiration), eww eww eww...
My sex drive is about to plummet, and probably will not return to its regularly scheduled program until about September.
man ive never heard of that.
Theres gotta be some way. By any chance do you have a girlfriend?
10 here
No, not in about 2 1/2 years. Don't really care right now; I got some action in the late winter so I can be held over.
ya true that. But you need a friend to get through this thing
with. Any close bros or something?
im probably not too much help so srry OTL
Late to respond but yes it has gotten warm (at last here). I felt the same way, weather's nice now but it's still just me...yep.
how about hibernating for the winter? that should work out.