So, I need some help.
Now, it's like this. College student, I;m quite attractive, but very shy. I can generally maintain a conversation if I'm approached, but I can't really start talking to girls myself.
Also, I'm hopeless at picking up hints. Even after that, if I did get the hint, I wouldn't know what to do.
I have the dreadful feeling that I'm missing chances left, right and center.
For instance, a girl complimented me on some part of my physical appearance, I didn't know her. What does that mean? Is thatgood? How do I follow up?
Another time, another girl calls out saying something like a joke or something, I forgot exactly, from a distance, and I don't know her. What do I do?
Also, when they start talking to me out of the blue. Does that mean they like me? What do I do from there?
Help appreciated!
It does not really matter whether they like you or not. What matters is that they were ready to initiate contact. You should encourage that feed the conversation. Questions on whether the girl likes you or not come much further down the line.
As for how to react, just continue in the same vein as they started, it's a safe bet. Otherwise ask questions about them, everybody likes people paying attention to them. Keep it neutral initially, to avoid missteps and to test the waters (what does she likes or not). An easy one is what is she studying, which class is she part of, her activities in the university, etc, etc. Just go for the easy stuff, no need to stress about it.
After you know a bit more about likes and dislikes of the girl, you can easily expand your scope of conversations, and even start actually taking initiatives: she likes music? lend her something she might like. Movies? same stuff, plus the movie going possibility, etc.
>>For instance, a girl complimented me on some part of my physical appearance, I didn't know her. What does that mean? Is thatgood? How do I follow up?
A girl complimenting you is a rare invitation on her part to flirt. Be playful and say "Oh, what about my eyes?" "What about my muscles?" "What about my butt?" (Turn around and stick it out when you ask) If she walks away or reacts badly, it means she's a prude who you wouldn't enjoy dating anyway. You could also play the ultra sensitive male and say "Woah, don't think you can win my heart with compliments right off the bat. How about a name, first?"
>>Another time, another girl calls out saying something like a joke or something, I forgot exactly, from a distance, and I don't know her. What do I do?
If she's catcalling you, say, "Hey, your mom said the exact same thing last night!" Or see above.
>>Also, when they start talking to me out of the blue. Does that mean they like me? What do I do from there?
It means they're interested and fishing for more, not that they like you. Flirt with them. Be a wise guy. Call them out for being so forward, or for any odd behavior on their part.
Thanks a lot guys!
Also, instead of starting a new thread, I'll post here.
Could anyone give me a guide to body language?
I think I'm on to something with someone.
I'll post the whole story at the conclusion, whether it ends well or not.
PYDO
when in doubt, Pull Your Dick Out
Nothing to lose. Just go for it. Not LITERALLY now, that will get you arrested. Shoot.....
The hardest part is to stop worrying about rejection.
rejection /=/ your bad
rejection = she don't know whats good
LOOOOL NICE haha