difficult boyfriend [advise me] (18)

10 Name: op : 2009-03-22 06:27 ID:jr1QOxWV

Okay so i finally got through to him at about 1 on the Saturday; after i rang his home phone and forced his dad to make him talk to me.

basically he claimed that he was busy with his friend and didn't want to talk, so i told him he was being an arse and went to his house to discuss things properly.

i explained to him that i was disappointed he forgot about my important job interview (which i reminded him about when i left for it) and i also explained why i hate when he ignores his phone and how it affects my trust for him negatively.
He just accepted but 'cracked the sads' when i refused to talk to him.

were okay now, though my trust with him needs to be rebuilt after the issues we have faced in the last month (ironically since he got retrenched)

it's my birthday in 2 days but im having a party/gathering for my close friends on the weekend, so after i see how he interacts with all my friends i am going to make a decision weather i should stay with him or not.
he hasn't met my friends before because they're all living at university, but because of my birthday they're all coming down. I'll be interested to see.

there's something not right when it's not just me and him one on one.
using me for sex perhaps? how could i tell if he was?

Thank you everyone and you're mostly all right about the weed issue GARR (hate)

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