OP here.
okay so I've taken in all of what every one has to say and basically it is my birthday thing this weekend and he hasn't met any of my friends who are mostly excelling in their educations and most of them are at university; this night will be the big test.
i spoke to my mom about all these things and she agrees that this night should be the big tester on him.
if he can't socialize with people who are better than him (future wise) i can't be with him, especially consiering they're my friends and i already can't stand his (because i can't trust him when he's with them).

Thank You everyone and i shall keep you updated.

Anymore advice would still be great, i can never know enough.