Guess you guys will probably already heard about all this stuff I'm about to tell you. But still please help me!!
You guys probably already know that I'm in love with this guy. Let's just call him M (first letter of his name). I actually already confess to M and he gently said he just want to be friend. I was expecting that plus I'm fine with it. 2 things you need to know about M:
The thing is M and I walk the same way home so we sometimes walk together. As usual I would ask if we can walk home together and he said yes. So I was really looking forward to the time when we would go home. The problem is whenever I walk to our meeting place he would text me saying he can't wait for me because he have to go to work. I know it's not his fault but he could at least tell me in the morning. So I was thinking if I should just not walk with him from now on, forget him, avoid him and not even look at him if it's help...
The up side are.. When I tried to avoid him, M would just suddenly turn up and said 'Hi!' Then if I did manage not to get spotted by him, he would text me asking where was I? It's like he was worried about me.. This things make it even harder for me to forget him..
My heart feels like it's tore in 2. 1 side said to just forget him, while the other side tell me to still be with him no matter what.
Guys, what am I supposed to do? Please help me..
if you really want to forget him then just tell him not to be so caring, tell the truth
Thanks for the advice. But how could I tell the truth without hurting him?
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In all honesty, you probably can't. Sometimes, if you really want to forget someone and you want them to back off, you have to hurt them.
It's not the easiest thing, but the pain from this is still better than the hours of wondering just what's going on.
why don't you try doing other things together? It looks like he may be interested in you. This way you could avoid schedule conflicts. Also, you could tell him that you can go together in the morning, but return separately, since it does not seem to be convenient. If he still wants to return together, then let him know that he should warn you when he can't make it.
Looks to me that you don't speak frankly enough, are not flexible enough.
Thanks for the advice guys.. But I might have already hurt him. Or not... I don't know what he's thinking, but today when he pass me on the corridor , he nod his head to say hi, but I just turn away.. I feel really guilty afterwards.. What do you guys think?