Worthwhile Women (17)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-29 05:26 ID:SIvA5e/k

Help me find women who are:

a) not overly insecure, but also aren't pompous
b) have some ambition (this doesn't necessarily mean GOIN 2 COLLAGE LOL, it means they have an idea ofwhat they want to do and are working hard toward it)
c) aren't fat (physical appearance DOES matter)

2 Name: Otakun : 2009-03-29 06:43 ID:JWCshTV2

Wouldn't an online dating source be your best bet? Since we don't have any idea of your situation or statistics.

Okcupid.com btw lol

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-29 07:08 ID:SIvA5e/k

I am on OKCupid, actually. And I've found some that match the description. They either won't respond or haven't logged in since shortly before I messaged them. The one that has chatted with me isn't single.

My statistics aren't really important, but I can assure you I fit all three of those.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-29 18:07 ID:SIvA5e/k

The gym?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-30 03:27 ID:VxN64t8u

>>3 your standards are too high :/

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-30 04:27 ID:SIvA5e/k

>>5
It's only three things. By many people's accounts, my definition of obesity is very forgiving. I don't mind slight rolls. And the first one is really just them being pleasant company and having a fair mind. Maybe it's the ambition thing.

7 Name: Scotland : 2009-03-31 02:18 ID:qUPv2Iau

u need to lower the expectations and criteria..or no one can be the equalivent of you. lol

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-08 11:02 ID:Vjdw4Ys1

>>4
I find the thought of starting up a conversation with a random in a gym completely bizarre.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-10 00:49 ID:SIvA5e/k

>>7
He's not really claiming himself to be that special...

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-15 04:37 ID:SIvA5e/k

Craigslist. D'ohohohoho.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-15 06:06 ID:psppcLGs

I'll tell you right now, you won't find her on the internet. I hope you like being outside.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-15 16:15 ID:PLktx7oV

I'd be happy with an insecure, mildly chubby, weeaboo fangirl. Where can I find one of those? Anonidate guy:girl ratios are crippling, and okcupid is mostly normalfag central.

13 Name: :3-san : 2009-04-15 18:37 ID:iqZoO4mx

>>12
Maybe try a local anime convention or comic book store? Animecons.com has a decent database if you want to go that route, but unfortunately I don't know of any comic-book-store resources. Where do you live, OP-san?

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-16 00:08 ID:PLktx7oV

I live in the England, southish. I've tried going to my university's anime club but that was predominantly male. I guess I'll try hanging around the manga section in Borders for a bit, can't hurt. :3 Cons would probably be a bit crowded and loud for me going by myself though.

I'm pretty girly and young looking, so I figure the yaoi fangirl type would probably find me quite attractive.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-16 00:15 ID:PLktx7oV

Whoops, I responded to the question intended for the OP. My bad.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-04-16 05:00 ID:SIvA5e/k

>>13
OP here, I live in Rochester NY. If you were asking >>12, he isn't me. Know anyone like the type I'm looking for, by chance?

17 Name: :3-san : 2009-04-17 04:42 ID:iqZoO4mx

Sorry OP and >>12, didn't realize you were two different people because my ids change all the time. Anyway, OP: I don't personally know of any ladies like that in your area, but New York has so many people, you could probably just find a busy park and strike up random conversations. Sorry, I don't feel like I'm being much help to either of you, but I wish you both the best!

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